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title: 'Not Exactly the Tip of the Tongue'
date: '2009-12-20T09:06:27-05:00'
permalink: /not-exactly-the-tip-of-the-tongue/
tags:
- 'random thoughts'
---
You know how sometimes youre trying to think of a name or a word and it just wont come, no matter how hard you try, but later that day while youre chopping onions or taking a shower youre all suddenly “Judi Dench! Dude, it was Judi Dench!” out of nowhere? So sometimes when youre trying to remember a name or word that wont come, you stop trying, hoping to get it to bubble up sooner precisely by *not thinking about it*?
About six months ago (maybe more), I was having a conversation with someone (cant at all remember who) about those words that youve either only seen in print and never heard pronounced or that youve actually heard pronounced but for whatever reason havent connected the version you hear to the version you read, and so run around with some completely wrong assumed pronunciation for the word until, at a moment of supreme embarrassment, somebody finally corrects you. And I had the most brilliant example of this, the story of a friend who for whatever reason didnt connect the printed version of a very common word to its very common pronunciation, and instead invented an entire etymology for the pronunciation hed imagined for it.
But I couldnt, for the life of me, remember the word, which kinda deflated the story a bit.
I knew it was a pretty short verb, and a really common one, and I knew the misunderstanding revolved around it being an irregular past participle, for which he invented an entirely imagined regular infinitive form. But beyond that, I couldnt get the word to pop up, so I stopped thinking about it.
And apparently *really* stopped thinking about it, both consciously and unconsciously, because only this morning, months and months later, as I was typing a message that happened to contain the word, did the memory of having tried to remember that word return.
This entire blog post is brought to you by my desire to make sure that I dont forget once again that the word was “misled.” (Pronounced MAI-zld, pp of “to misle.”)